Social Media for Parents

WWSD CyberSense Parenting

In today's fast-moving digital world, we know that staying on top of our children's online activities is more challenging than ever. As they explore various social media platforms, a parent's role in guiding and protecting them becomes even more crucial. We are here to help support your efforts, and that's why we're thrilled to introduce our "WWSD CyberSense Parenting" information campaign. Launching today, this initiative is designed to empower you, our parents, with the knowledge and tools necessary to navigate your children's social media world. We believe that informed parenting is not just beneficial but essential for ensuring the online safety of our children.

To support your efforts, for the next six months, we will regularly share insights about the features, potential risks, and safety measures connected to some of the most popular social media platforms your kids and their friends might be using. Every month, we'll bring you fresh, up-to-date content and resources to help you stay one step ahead. 

  • December & January: Instagram
  • February: TikTok
  • March: Snapchat 
  • April: VSCO/BeReal
  • May: YouTube
  • June: Best Practices for Parents 

We recognize that the realm of social media can sometimes feel overwhelming, but together, we can help make it into a safer space for our children. We would love to hear from you and improve this campaign as we go! Please feel free to share any resources or experiences you find helpful at



TikTok is a free video-sharing app available on iPhone and Android, and it's not just popular; it's a cultural phenomenon, especially among Gen Z.

free video-sharing social media platform app available on iPhone and Android, where users share videos, often featuring lip-synching to popular songs and sounds. It allows users to create, upload, and explore all kinds of content, including challenges, comedy routines, DIY tips, memes, and current events, all categorized by hashtags.

For better or worse, today's teens see TikTok as a platform for creativity, connection, and identity. Many younger generations actually use it as a search engine instead of Google!

Parents: Understanding why, how, (and if!) your teens are using TikTok is important. Initiate a conversation about their TikTok use, share your perspectives, and be curious about theirs.

Tip: Stay tuned for some of the red flags you need to be aware of over the next few days and weeks.

Resource: Everything Parents Need to Know About TikTok 



Is TikTok kid-friendly? The answer might surprise you.

TikTok claims it CAN be a kid-friendly experience with parental supervision and proper use of safety settings. But as parents, you need to know that TikTok's emphasis on popular music means many videos include swearing and sexual lyrics, so it may not be age-appropriate for kids to use on their own. Common Sense Media recommends the app for age 15+ mainly due to the privacy issues and mature content. 

TikTok's has the following age-specific rules about content exposure:

  • For kids under 13: Content is curated, no posting or commenting is allowed.
  • Ages 13 to 15: Accounts are private by default, with limited interaction.
  • Ages 16 and over: Livestreaming and direct messaging are unlocked.

Can kids bypass these restrictions?

The answer is yes, and we'll cover more in our next post.



In March 2023, TikTok introduced a 60-minute daily time limit for users under 18, promoting healthier screen time management. But can kids bypass TikTok's age limit and avoid the daily limit? They can, and it's easier than you think!

TikTok's age restriction is set at 13, but kids often enter a false age to gain access to the full app. This exposes them to content that may not be suitable for their age group.

Parents: it's key to keep an eye on this! Check in with your teens about their TikTok usage and the age they used to sign up. Honest conversations about online safety and responsible use are crucial in this digital era.

Resource: Parents' Ultimate Guide to TikTok



Did you know the TikTok algorithm is intentionally designed to be highly addictive? It tailors content based on user interactions, creating an endless stream of videos that seem perfectly suited to each viewer's interests. This personalization can lead to excessive screen time, especially in teens, as they get continuously fed content that keeps them engaged, and might be damaging mentally and emotionally.

One of the most dangerous aspects of TikTok is the sheer prevalence of harmful and misinformation flooding feeds, content that gives users a highly distorted view of themselves, their bodies, their mental health, and how they compare to other people.

A 2023 research study suggested that, within about two-and-a-half minutes of setting up a TikTok account, young people could be pushed self-harm content – and eating disorder content within eight.

Parents, it's vital to educate yourselves about the addictive and potentially unhealthy nature of TikTok algorithms and the importance of critical thinking and fact-checking.  

Resource: How TikTok’s algorithm ‘exploits the vulnerability’ of children



Did you know that TikTok's default privacy settings might not be enough to protect your kids? In our WWSD CyberSense Parenting campaign, we're focusing on the importance of actively managing privacy settings on TikTok.

While TikTok accounts for users under 18 are set to private by default, there's more to online safety than just account visibility. Parents, it's crucial to take extra steps to secure your child's TikTok account.

Here's how:

  • Go to your child's profile, tap the three-dot icon, and navigate to "Settings and privacy."
  • Under Privacy, you'll find options to make the account private and control who can comment, send direct messages, and interact with your teen's content.

Taking these steps minimizes unwanted contact from strangers and helps maintain a safer online environment for your children. Encourage open conversations about these settings and why they're important for online safety.

Resource: Parents' Ultimate Guide to TikTok



Did you know that you can use TikTok's Family Pairing mode to enhance your teen's online safety? Launched in 2022, this feature can help you monitor what your teen is doing on TikTok. 

Family Pairing allows you to link your account with your teen, giving you control over their TikTok experience. You can set daily screen time limits, activate Restricted Mode to shield them from inappropriate content and manage their direct messaging capabilities. 

Plus, you have the power to disable the search function and control the visibility of their liked videos.

Here's how to maximize TikTok's Family Pairing mode:

  1. In the TikTok app, tap Profile at the bottom.
  2. Tap the Menu ☰ button at the top.
  3. Tap Settings and privacy, then tap Family Pairing.
  4. Select the account you want to manage.
  5. Set screen time limits to encourage healthy usage habits.
  6. Activate Restricted Mode to filter out unsuitable content.
  7. Manage direct messaging to ensure safe online interactions.
  8. Disable the search function to prevent exposure to harmful content.

Resource: TikTok: Account and User Safety



✨While TikTok can be a platform for fun and creativity, it also hosts challenges that can be dangerous and even illegal. Some challenges promote reckless behavior like the Ghost Pepper, Pass Out, and Concussion challenges, which pose serious health risks. Others have led to tragic consequences. Additionally, there are challenges that encourage destructive behaviour or stunts in schools, leading to vandalism, theft, or other illegal activities​​​​​​.

It’s important to note that while there have been problematic challenges on TikTok and other platforms, most challenges are fun, light-hearted activities that people film themselves doing to connect to the broader online community. 


  1. Engage in open discussions with your kids about TikTok trends.
  2. Educate them about the consequences of participating in harmful or illegal challenges.
  3. Encourage them to make smart choices and understand the impact of their actions on themselves and others.

For a comprehensive guide on how to address these issues, visit Common Sense Media's guide on viral internet stunts

This resource will provide you with valuable insights and strategies to keep your kids safe.



Did you know TikTok has parental controls? Many parents are unaware they can manage their children's TikTok experience directly. Our WWSD CyberSense Parenting campaign is here to guide you through it!

TikTok offers features like Screen Time Management and Restricted Mode to help parents control their kids' app usage. These settings limit time spent on the app and filter mature content, but remember, no system is foolproof. It's crucial to stay involved in your child’s digital life.

Here's how:

  1. On your child's TikTok, tap the three dots at the top right of their profile.
  2. Select "Digital Wellbeing" and enable Screen Time Management and Restricted Mode, setting a passcode to lock these options.
  3. To take control remotely, download TikTok on your phone, create an account, and use Family Pairing to manage settings from your device.

Resource: Parents' Ultimate Guide to TikTok



While TikTok has policies to block inappropriate content, teens may still encounter risky situations. They (and you!) must know how to report or block content and users that don't follow the community guidelines.

Take control by educating yourselves on TikTok's reporting and blocking features. Here's how you can keep your kids safe.

Here's how:

  • Block a User: If someone's bothering your child, they can block them. This prevents the user from following, viewing, or interacting with your child's content. To block, go to the user's profile, tap the three dots, and select 'Block.'
  • Report a Profile or Content: If your child sees something that violates TikTok's guidelines, they can report it. For profiles, tap the three dots on the profile and select 'Report.' For videos, press and hold the video, then tap 'Report.' Similarly, report a comment or message by long-pressing and selecting 'Report.'

Resource: TikTok's Safety Center offers comprehensive guides on how to use these features effectively



Did you know that cyberbullying on TikTok isn't always obvious? In our WWSD CyberSense Parenting campaign, we're exploring the subtler sides of TikTok bullying. Some users, unfortunately, misuse the 'duet' or 'reaction' feature to mock others' videos, creating side-by-side comparisons that can be hurtful.

Parents, it's essential to discuss with your kids the different forms cyberbullying can take. Encourage them to use TikTok's features responsibly and to stand up against bullying when they see it. Teach them to be upstanders, not bystanders, in the digital world.

Action Steps for Parents:

  1. Talk to your kids about the responsible use of TikTok's 'duet' and 'reaction' features.
  2. Monitor their TikTok activity and discuss the content they are viewing and creating.
  3. Educate them on the impact of cyberbullying and the importance of being supportive and kind online.

Resource: Common Sense Media's Guide to TikTok


Welcome to the WWSD CyberSense Parenting campaign! Our first stop is diving into the world of Instagram. This week, we're unpacking what Instagram is, its massive role in teen life, and why, as parents, we need to be in the know. 

Instagram is a free photo and video-sharing app available on iPhone and Android, and it’s not just popular; it's a global phenomenon, especially with millennials and Gen Z.

Users upload photos or videos and share them with their followers or with a select group of friends. They can also view, comment on, and like posts shared by their friends on Instagram. 

Did you know Instagram has over 2.3 billion users? 

Most users are under 34, and it's a favourite among teenagers. Understanding this platform is key to connecting with our digital-native kids and keeping them safe.

Our teens are learning, interacting, and growing on this global stage. To them, it's about more than just sharing moments; it's about building a digital identity. Understanding this digital landscape to better relate to and guide our teens is important.

Instagram is not without risks. Security issues like hacking and malware can compromise personal data. Privacy concerns arise from oversharing personal information, making teens susceptible to data misuse and stalking. 

Tip: Start a conversation with your teen about their Instagram experience. Share your insights and ask about theirs! 



Instagram offers a set of tools for parents/guardians to support teens on Instagram. When supervision is set up, a parent can:

  • Set a time limit for how long their teen can use Instagram each day. If Instagram is used on multiple devices, time limits apply to the total time spent using Instagram.
  • Set scheduled breaks that limit their teen's use of Instagram during selected days and hours. If Instagram is used on multiple devices, scheduled breaks apply to Instagram access across all devices
  • See how much time their teen is spending on the Instagram app across all devices.
  • See which accounts their teen is following.
  • See which accounts are following their teen.
  • See which accounts their teen is currently blocking.




Instagram accounts can be either public or private, and this choice significantly impacts privacy. For users under 16, accounts default to private, limiting who can see posts. 

Parents, it's a great idea to make sure your teen has an account set to private and discuss with your teens the importance of these settings and how they shape their digital footprint. Remember, their online presence can influence future college or job opportunities! 

Tip: Check on your teen’s profile status.

Here’s how:

  • Open Instagram and log in to your teen's account.
  • Go to the profile page by tapping the profile icon at the bottom right.
  • Tap the three horizontal lines in the top right, then tap "Settings."
  • Tap "Privacy" and switch the "Private Account" toggle on.
  • Review other privacy settings, such as who can comment and send direct messages.



Followers on Instagram are the users who follow what you post; they can see your posts on both your profile and on their feed. 

If your Instagram is set to private, these are the only people who can see your posts. They can also view your Instagram stories and send you direct messages.

Tip: Ensure your teen’s safety by reviewing who is following them and who they follow and making sure their account is private.

Here’s how:

  • From the main profile, tap “Followers” near the top with a number. Review each list.
  • Show teens how to set their account to private: Go to Settings > Privacy > Account Privacy > Switch to Private.



Instagram requires users to be 13 or older, but age verification is easy to bypass, and teens do it all the time, as Instagram does not require any proof of age. This is also why it is easy for grown men to pretend to be teenage girls on Instagram.

Be aware that teens might also create secondary 'secret' accounts, or "finstagrams," to share content without parental supervision or anonymously target or bully others. 

Tip: Discuss the importance of honesty online and the reasons behind age restrictions, and the consequences of fake or anonymous accounts. Check to see if your teen has a second account. 

Here's how:

  • From the main profile page, click on the user name in the top left corner.
  • A list of all accounts logged into on the phone will appear.



Instagram Posts are permanent photos or videos shared on a profile. But they’re more than just pictures and videos. They're potential cyberbullying grounds. Cyberbullying is also a real concern on Instagram. From hurtful comments to targeted harassment, it can deeply affect our teens. Using Instagram's reporting and blocking features help to combat this issue. 

Tip: Ensure your teen’s safety by setting up comment controls and using the 'Restrict' feature to discreetly manage who interacts with them.

Here’s how:

  • Teach them to use the comment filter: Go to Settings > Privacy > Comments > Enable "Manual Filter" for specific words or phrases.
  • Discuss the 'Restrict' feature: Go to the profile of the user you want to restrict, tap the three dots (...) > Restrict.



Stories on Instagram vanish after 24 hours, but they can reach a wide audience quickly.
The 'Close Friends' feature allows for more private sharing.

Tip: Discuss this feature with your teen and go through the 'Close Friends' list together. with your child and check the 'story archive' together.

Here's how:

  • From their profile, tap on the profile picture in the top left corner to open the Stories camera > tap the gear icon in the top right corner > select Story > tap Close Friends > Review and edit the list.
  • Go to their profile > tap the three horizontal lines > Archive.



Stories on Instagram vanish after 24 hours, but the ‘Archive’ allows you to see what’s been posted in the past.

Tip: Discuss this feature with your teen and check the 'story archive' together.

Here's how:

  • From their profile > tap the three horizontal lines in the top right corner > Archive > select stories archive, post archive or live archive.


Instagram Reels are short videos posted to Instagram that can be engaging, fun, and super popular with teens! There are always trending or extremely popular dances, ‘sounds’ and themes to these reels that teens want to replicate so they can go ‘viral’ or be noticed by lots of people.

A major risk of reels is that they contain content that is inappropriate for your teen or encourages behaviour that is unacceptable or risky. Here are some ways to understand Reels and ensure your teen's safety. 

Tips for parents:

  • Watch some Reels with your teen to understand the content they're viewing.
  • Discuss the types of videos appropriate for creating and sharing.
  • Show them how to manage who can see their Reels: Go to their profile > tap the three horizontal lines > Settings > Privacy > Story > choose who can and cannot see their Reels.
  • Talk about the risks of viral challenges and the importance of not participating in dangerous or inappropriate ones.



DMs are private conversations on Instagram but also can be a gateway for unwanted messages. Parents also need to be aware of the 'Vanish Mode' feature that deletes messages as soon as they’re sent. Here are some actions you may want to take with your teen:

Tip: Review your teen's DM settings and discuss the 'vanish' mode.

  • Review DM settings: Go to Settings > Privacy > Messages.
  • Explain how to handle message requests from unknown users.
  • Discuss 'Vanish Mode' and its implications: Swipe up in an existing chat to enable it, and swipe up again to turn it off.



The Explore page on Instagram is a treasure trove of new content. But it can also be a maze of the unexpected and expose kids to content they should not be seeing. 

Tip: guide your teens by exploring the Explore page together. Discuss how to navigate it safely and how to report inappropriate content. Here’s how:

  • Open Instagram and log in.
  • Tap on the magnifying glass icon at the bottom to open the Explore page.
  • Browse through the content with your teen.
  • If you encounter inappropriate content, tap the post.
  • Tap the three dots (...) in the top right corner of the post.
  • Select "Report," then follow the prompts to report the content.



Fake accounts are a reality on Instagram. Teach your teens how to spot and report these accounts. Look for red flags like very few posts, a recent creation date, or suspicious follower numbers.

Online predators are a significant risk on Instagram, exploiting anonymity to conceal their identities. They can manipulate younger users through direct messages and attractive visual content. 

Tip: Educate your teens about the dangers of interacting with strangers online and monitor their interactions to ensure their safety. Show your teens how to identify fake accounts on Instagram and the process for reporting them.

Here’s how:

  • Identify suspicious accounts (few posts, recent creation date, unusual follower numbers).
  • Tap on the suspicious account to view the profile.
  • Tap the three dots (...) in the top right corner of the profile.
  • Select "Report," then "It's inappropriate," and follow the prompts to report.



Notifications can be overwhelming and distracting, especially while teens should be learning! 

Tip: help your teen manage their Instagram notifications by turning off non-essential alerts to minimize distractions and reduce screen time.

Here’s how:

  • Open Instagram and log in to your teen's account.
  • Tap the profile icon, then the three horizontal lines.
  • Tap "Settings," then "Notifications."
  • Adjust the notification settings for posts, stories, comments, and direct messages as desired.



Hashtags (#) are more than just trendy phrases; they're gateways to communities and content. They can lead to both positive and negative spaces. Sometimes, people disguise dangerous or inappropriate content with a hashtag that seems absolutely normal, but when teenagers click on it, it shows them images that are not meant for their eyes. 

Tip: Discuss the use and impact of hashtags with your teens, guiding them to engage with positive communities and avoid potentially harmful content.

Here’s how to explore the hashtag function:

  • Open Instagram and show your teen how to use the search function (magnifying glass icon).
  • Type a hashtag in the search bar and show the resulting content.
  • Discuss how different hashtags lead to different communities and content types.
  • Advise your teen on choosing positive and safe hashtags to follow.



Instagram can trigger mental health issues in teens, including comparison anxiety, validation-seeking behaviour, and cyberbullying, leading to emotional distress and a constant need for approval. Excessive screen time can also lead to addiction, isolation, and sleep disturbances.

Tip: Set limits on screen time and have open discussions about the impact of social media on mental health. Discuss prioritizing real-world interactions and well-being. 




Instagram users, especially teens, should be aware of various scams, including romance scams, fake accounts, unofficial stores, phishing links, and giveaway scams. These scams can lead to emotional manipulation, data theft, and financial losses.

Tip: Educate teens about these risks and how to spot and avoid them. 




You can help your teen enhance their Instagram security by implementing strong passwords and enabling two-factor authentication (2FA). Strong, unique passwords and 2FA add layers of protection against unauthorized access. 

Tip: Guide your teens in setting 2FA and reinforce the importance of online security. 



What is Snapchat?

Snapchat lets users take pictures and videos, called snaps, that disappear after they're viewed. The app is free to download - all you need to sign up is your name, an email address or a phone number, and your birth date. To add friends, you can upload your contacts or search for people you know. You can also automatically add someone by taking a picture of their "Snapcode," a special QR code unique to each user.

Teens can share "snaps" or videos and images directly with another user or group or on their story (which friends can view for 24 hours) and add it to Snap Map (which shows your photo on a map of your location that anyone on Snapchat can view).

Parents: stay tuned for some of the Snapchat red flags you need to be aware of over the next few days and weeks.

Resource: Parents' Ultimate Guide to Snapchat

Where Do I Start?

One of the things that makes Snapchat popular with kids because their friends are on it and their parents aren’t. 

The best way to understand Snapchat’s allure and potential risks is by diving in and experiencing it firsthand. Meet your teens where they are.  

Here’s a simple guide for parents to get started with Snapchat:

  • Download the App: Start by downloading Snapchat from the App Store (iOS) or Google Play Store (Android) onto your smartphone.
  • Create an Account: Sign up with your email address, create a password, and follow the prompts to set up your profile.
  • Explore Features: Familiarize yourself with Snapchat’s various features. Try sending snaps to friends or family members who are already on the platform.Understand
  • Privacy Settings: Dive into the privacy settings to understand how to control who can see your posts and send you messages. This knowledge is crucial when guiding your teen on how to use Snapchat safely
  • Engage with Your Teens: Share your Snapchat experience with your kids. Ask them to show you their favourite features and discuss how they use the app. This can be a great opportunity to talk about online safety, privacy, and digital etiquette in a relaxed and engaging way.

Action Item: Take the plunge and join Snapchat today. Not only will this help you understand why it’s so appealing to your kids, but it will also provide a platform for open discussions about responsible and safe social media use.

Snapchat Appropriate Ages

Snapchat's terms of service state that users must be at least 13 years old, aligning with online privacy laws designed to protect younger children from the risks of social media. 

Parents: you need to know that Snapchat's process for verifying a user's age is NOT foolproof, which means younger children can easily access the platform without consent.

For more information on Snapchat's age requirement and tips for safe usage, check out the Snapchat Safety Center.

About Disappearing Messages

Do Snapchat messages REALLY disappear? Are they actually private?

Well, yes and no. The disappearing messages on Snap give teens the illusion of privacy and secrecy, but there are workarounds. 

Here's what parents need to know:

  1. Snapchat's servers are programmed to delete all snaps automatically after they've been viewed. 
  2. When a user sends a snap, they can select for how long they want their photo to be able to view before it disappears. Users can make viewing time 10 seconds and under or allow their photo or video to be viewed for an unlimited amount of time.
  3. Users can replay received Snaps once more before they disappear. 
  4. Senders and recipients can save snaps (images or videos) in the chat by pressing and holding them, where they will stay until they are unsaved​​.
  5. Snapchat will notify a user if the recipient takes a screenshot of their snap, but it will not prevent them from doing so. Someone can easily take a photo of a snap with a second device and save it to their own device or distribute it.

It's essential that teens understand Snapchat's privacy features and that there are still ways for their content to be saved or captured without their consent. 

Resource: Net Nanny


Social media use is psychologically rewarding and highly addictive. Using social media makes us feel good, which is part of what makes them fun.

Next time you talk to your teen about Snapchat, ask them about the emojis and numbers popping up next to their friends' names - they will probably tell you about snap streaks. 

Snapstreaks are a highly addictive feature of Snapchat that are a big part of what's keeping your teen glued to their phone. A Snapstreak starts when two users send snaps (photos or videos) back and forth for three consecutive days, and it continues only if they keep exchanging snaps every 24 hours. If either friend fails to send a message in that window, they lose their snapstreak.

This digital bonding activity might seem harmless, but it can become a source of stress. The desire to keep a streak alive can lead to feelings of pressure, anxiety, and compulsion, especially among teens. Some go as far as sharing their account details with friends to keep a streak going during times they can't access their phones, like when they're grounded or too busy with schoolwork.

Parents: The snapstreak feature can affect your teen's emotional well-being, making it important to have open conversations about their use of the app and the pressure they might feel to maintain streaks. Start a dialogue with your teen about Snapstreaks. Ask them if they have any streaks going, how they feel about maintaining them, and if it ever feels like a burden. It's a great opportunity to discuss the value of genuine connections over digital ones and to remind them that a streak count doesn't measure the quality of a friendship.

Snap Maps

The Snap Map is a feature every parent needs to know about because it shows your teen's location on a map to their friends in real-time.

While this could be fun for finding friends at a concert or a big game, it raises a few major concerns.

First, there are some significant mental health risks for teens. Social media is a social experience that feeds deeply into our desires to feel included, feel the validation of others, and make sure we fit in. The fear of missing out (FOMO) is very real, and when teens see all of their friends together and they aren't invited, you can see why that might cause stress. 

Second, Snap Maps raises major concerns about privacy and safety. Not all "friends" on Snapchat are real-life buddies, and sharing a location broadly can unintentionally expose your teen to risks. 

Parents: Discuss Ghost Mode with your teen, a Snapchat feature allowing them to see the map without showing their location to others.

Discuss the importance of privacy and the potential risks of sharing their location online. This is also an excellent opportunity to review their friends list with them, ensuring they're only connected with people they know and trust in real life.

The Discover Tab

Snapchat's Discover tab exposes users to content from a wide range of media outlets, brands, and influencers. But it's not without risks.

Here's what parents need to know:

  • The Discover section hosts a mix of content that may not be appropriate for all ages due to mature themes or language.
  • Snapchat attempts to filter out adult content for users who have registered with their correct birth date, but there is still a very real possibility that teens may come across mature content. 
  • Snapchat works with third parties and can collect a significant amount of data about users' habits both within and outside of the app. 
  • A lot of the Discover tab is branded content and advertisements, which may prompt users to "swipe up" to learn more, which often leads them to a secondary site.
  • Discover content is curated by an algorithm, meaning your teen is more likely to see content that aligns with their previous interactions.

Parents: Talk to your teen about the types of content they see on Discover and what to do if they encounter inappropriate material. Take some time to review privacy settings with their children to manage data-sharing preferences.

Keep in mind there are no “free” social media platforms. When we use a platform like Snapchat, we pay with data. The data includes what we like, what we buy, who we know, and other behaviour patterns that are tracked online.

Resource: What Parents Needs to Know about Snapchat and Kids

Family Centre

Wondering how you can keep an eye on your teen's Snapchat use? Well, you might like Snapchat's Family Center feature, which is designed to bridge the gap between parental oversight and teen privacy. 

It's important to note that Family Center doesn't provide access to message content or full control over your teen's Snapchat use. It's designed to respect teens' privacy while giving parents a window into their social interactions. For example, it lets parents see their teen's friend list and whom they've been chatting with over the past week—without revealing the content of those conversations. 

Parents: To use this feature, parents need to download Snapchat, create an account, and invite their teen to join the Family Center via an opt-in process. This setup allows visibility into friend lists, group memberships, and new friendships, as well as control over exposure to content on Snapchat's Stories and Spotlight features.

Resource: For a step-by-step guide on setting up and using the Family Center, check out Snapchat Support and the Snapchat Parental Controls guide. You can also visit Screentime: Snapchat Parental Controls

What is BeReal?

BeReal is a newer platform (released in 2020) that has garnered attention for its unique approach to social media interaction, which emphasizes authenticity and real-life moments over curated content.

BeReal users receive a random notification once a day, prompting them to take a photo within two minutes using both the front and back cameras of their phone. 

The purpose is to capture a genuine or REAL moment of their day.

Are there any privacy concerns about BeReal?

Early on, when using the app, users can only share their posts with added friends. However, the more they use the app, the more additional features are unlocked, such as the ability to share posts more broadly with strangers.

BeReal has a 13+ age restriction and offers privacy features to ensure posts aren't public unless the user chooses to share them more widely Despite its emphasis on real-life moments, there are some concerns about privacy, especially due to the geotagging of photos, which can reveal a user's exact location.

The BeReal app collects a wide range of user data, including location, which can be shared with third parties under certain conditions.

What should parents know about BeReal?


  • BeReal encourages users to engage with real life rather than spending excessive time on the app. This can be seen as a positive aspect for parents concerned about screen time and social media addiction


  • BeReal offers minimal parental controls. Parents can turn off geotagging, but other forms of parental control are not extensively supported.
  • There are concerns about the potential for inappropriate content, as well as privacy issues related to data collection and the sharing of personal information.
  • The app's design to post within a two-minute window can create urgency and social pressure, potentially leading to anxiety for some teens.

What actions should parents take?

  1. Have conversations with your teen about the importance of privacy and the potential risks of sharing personal information online.
  2. Ensure that your child's posts are set to be viewed by friends only and that location sharing is turned off to protect their privacy
  3. While BeReal promotes less screen time, it's still important to monitor your child's use of the app and discuss any content they share or receive.
  4.  Teach your teen about responsible social media use, including respecting others' privacy, avoiding oversharing, and the implications of their digital footprint.

Resources for Parents